By Kemi Ademilola
Digging a hole may seem like fun and also can be difficult especially if the soil is not a friendly kind. Then we put seeds in the hole and face the commitment part which is watering the seeds for better growth. Yep! The most exciting part is the harvesting period. Let's be Realwithkem here, all this illustration applies to a relationship. You can only harvest what you planted. Love is commitment and sacrifice. Forget about what you want to gain from the relationship but work on what you want to put in the relationship then you get a good fortune in return. Never let your relationship shape you but you shape your relationship to what you want then it will give you peace at last. Let your goals be what you want to do for her/him for a better tomorrow and wait to see if the good wishes won't come back to you. Even if the relationship eventually collapsed, you will reap your good deeds in another relationship because you have trained yourself to be a good seed sower in a relationship. Take these tips; You can only sow seeds with patience, commitment, tolerance, and unconditional love. Finally, learn to close your eyes to some little things that may want to distract you when sowing your seeds in your relationship so you can achieve your aims. Always get Realwithkem!
Kemi Ademilola blogs as Realwithkem